“Row, row, row your boat …”
“The itsy bitsy spider …”
“Hello, hello, hello and how are you …”
I’ve become a bit of a children’s song expert over the last eight months, if you could believe it. Serena and I have been attending music classes all over the city and suburbs and loving every minute of them. I get to see other moms, Serena gets to lick shakers, and everyone has a great time.
A popular song, of course, is “The Wheels on the Bus.” Each teacher has a slightly different set of lyrics to this classic favorite. The wheels always go round and round, the horn always beeps, the wipers always swish, and that darn driver is always so terse with his “Move on back.”
What do the members of the family do?
In one version of the song — I won’t name any teachers’ names — okay, it was at the library — the song went as follows:
“The mommies on the bus say ‘shh shh shh, shh shh shh, shh shh shh,’ the mommies on the bus say ‘shh shh shh,’ all through the town. The daddies on the bus say ‘I love you, I love you, I love you,’ the daddies on the bus say ‘I love you,’ all through the town.”
Okay, which PR firm is doing the mommies’ PR and which firm is doing the daddies’ PR, and why are we getting the raw end of the deal?
It must be fun to be a daddy. While your kid is going ‘wah wah wah’ all through the town, the mommy comforted and scolded the baby. Now that the baby is calm and quiet, the daddy gets to be the one to say “I love you.” Must be nice, Daddy.
Of course, in other classes I’ve heard many other versions of this scenario. Well, not very many. There are basically three phrases I’ve heard the mommies/daddies say: “Shh shh shh,” “I love you,” and “Peekaboo.” So maybe we can try to use the latter two so no one has to be the evil disciplinarian while the other parent gets to be the “fun” parent?
Here are some alternative things that the mommies and daddies can say on the bus all through the town:
“Water is blue.” (it’s educational!)
“Look how you grew.” (it’s complimentary!)
“So what’s new?” (maybe parents can make conversation with each other)
“Four three two.” (math lessons!)
And who says we need to rhyme? These are what REAL parents would say.
“The parents on the bus say, ‘I need a nap.'”
“The parents on the bus say, ‘Why is this wet?'”
“The parents on the bus say, ‘What do you want for dinner, I’d eat anything, no, not in the mood for Chinese, nah, had Mexican last week, I’m too full for pizza, but really, anything is fine with me, I’m not picky.”
“The parents on the bus say, ‘Why did we think taking the bus would be a good idea with all this baggage we needed to take for the baby? Why does she need so much stuff anyway? Is this the lightest stroller we could have bought? I think the City Mini stroller folds up better. We should have hired a caddie…’ all through the town.”
See you on the bus all through the town, friends!